So, What's Your Proposal?: Shifting High-Conflict People from Blaming to Problem-Solving in 30 Seconds!

Bill Eddy

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Blame is abundant these days! Every day people confront us at work, at the store, at home, in our communities and online. Nerves get on edge. More and more people get stuck blaming others for anything that goes wrong. With high-conflict people increasing in society, the 24-hour news cycle, and social media, we are continually barraged with the worst behaviors of other people. The strong temptation is to react, defend yourself and blame them back.

Instead, consider the simple So, What's Your Proposal? method for pulling them out of the past and away from blaming everyone else. Get them to quickly: focus on the future; take responsibility; contribute to finding solutions to problems - including those they created themselves.

You will stay calm and confident, while earning the respect of those around you - even those who want to blame you!

"In his newest must read book So, What's Your Proposal? Shifting High-Conflict People from Blaming to Problem-Solving in 30 Seconds, Master Attorney/Mediator/ Therapist, Bill Eddy shows you how to stop the blame game and consciously shift conflict quickly into creative solutions. This book is crucial for anyone who has to deal with difficult people at home or in business!"
-Mari J. Frank, Esq. CIPP, attorney/mediator, and author of Negotiations Breakthroughs; co-author of The Gift in Conflict for Couples.

Bill Eddy is the author of several books about dealing with high-conflict people - the most difficult "difficult" people. Bill is a lawyer, therapist, mediator and the President of the High Conflict Institute. He developed the "High Conflict Personality" theory and has become an expert on managing legal, workplace and other disputes involving high-conflict personalities and personality disorders.

His books include: It's All Your Fault at Work! Managing Narcissists and Other High-Conflict People So What's Your Proposal? Shifting High-Conflict People from Blaming to Problem-Solving in 30 Seconds High Conflict People in Legal Disputes It's All YOUR Fault! 12 Tips for Managing People Who Blame Others for Everything BIFF: Quick Responses to High Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns SPLITTING: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder

He is also the developer of the "New Ways for Work” method of managing potentially high conflict employees in the workplace; and the "New Ways for Families" method of managing potentially high-conflict parents in and out of family court. A graduate of Case Western Reserve University, San Diego State University, and the University of San Diego School of Law, he lives in San Diego, CA with his wife.


Einband Taschenbuch
Seitenzahl 150
Erscheinungsdatum 16.09.2014
Sprache Englisch
ISBN 978-1-936268-62-7
Verlag Unhooked Books
Maße (L/B/H) 21.6/13.9/1.2 cm
Gewicht 206 g


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  • Introduction

    Chapter 1: Will Emma and Jake Ever Agree?

    Chapter 2: The (Brain) Power of This Question

    Chapter 3: Making Proposals in Three Simple Steps

    Chapter 4: Dealing with Resistance

    Chapter 5: Brainstorming at Work

    Chapter 6: Choices in Education

    Chapter 7: Consequences in Families

    Chapter 8: Realistic Options in Communities

    Chapter 9: Volunteer and Nonprofit Organizations

    Chapter 10: Participating in Politics