Beschreibung
Produktdetails
Einband
Taschenbuch
Altersempfehlung
1 - 99 Jahr(e)
Erscheinungsdatum
07.04.2026
Verlag
EpubliSeitenzahl
252
Maße (L/B/H)
29.7/21/1.5 cm
Gewicht
770 g
Auflage
1
Sprache
Englisch
ISBN
978-3-565-38886-8
Dating is rarely just about the other person. Beneath the excitement, the confusion, the inexplicable pull toward certain people and the quiet retreat from others, something older is operating — a set of emotional instructions, written long before any romantic relationship began, shaping what feels familiar, what feels safe, and what feels, despite all evidence to the contrary, like love.
This book explores how attachment styles — secure, anxious, avoidant, and the more complex disorganized — quietly direct the experience of dating: who we choose, how we behave when closeness grows, and why the same patterns seem to repeat across different faces and different years. With particular honesty, it looks at the well-documented but often painful dynamic between anxious and avoidant attachment — the pursuer and the withdrawer, each triggering the other's deepest fear, each convinced the problem lies with the other person rather than within the pattern itself.
Drawing on attachment research and relational psychology, this book translates complex theory into the lived, recognizable texture of modern dating — the unanswered message that sends anxiety spiraling, the moment closeness arrives and something inside pulls back, the relationships that feel electric precisely because they are unstable. It does not offer a checklist for finding the right person. It offers something more enduring: a clearer, more compassionate understanding of the person you bring to every relationship — and what that person, gently attended to, is still trying to learn about love.
This book explores how attachment styles — secure, anxious, avoidant, and the more complex disorganized — quietly direct the experience of dating: who we choose, how we behave when closeness grows, and why the same patterns seem to repeat across different faces and different years. With particular honesty, it looks at the well-documented but often painful dynamic between anxious and avoidant attachment — the pursuer and the withdrawer, each triggering the other's deepest fear, each convinced the problem lies with the other person rather than within the pattern itself.
Drawing on attachment research and relational psychology, this book translates complex theory into the lived, recognizable texture of modern dating — the unanswered message that sends anxiety spiraling, the moment closeness arrives and something inside pulls back, the relationships that feel electric precisely because they are unstable. It does not offer a checklist for finding the right person. It offers something more enduring: a clearer, more compassionate understanding of the person you bring to every relationship — and what that person, gently attended to, is still trying to learn about love.
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